So Many Days to Go.......

I am so excited about my trip to visit my love in Belgium!!  I wish it was closer, however we planned it for when it is so I could spend christmas with him.  I am ready to just get the flight over with but I must wait..... I  wish I could take my kitten with me but it would just be too much to do for this trip, although when I move there next year my baby is coming with me.  I will not move without him!  I have just over 100 days till my flight to Belgium, and I swear these are some of the longest days of my life!  

I am only surviving the time till I leave by getting to video chat with my sweet man everyday!  If not for Skype and Google+ I really don't know what I would do.....  So I thank the lord for the man who created those, just cause they keep me from losing my mind, and killing myself.

I am nervous of picking up my life and starting over in a whole new country, but I am also very excited to be starting my life with my true love!  After having one failed marriage in my life i am planning on going slowly, him and I are not rushing into any marriage.  I will live with him there starting next year, but we will have been together for over a year and known each other longer than that.  There is also the three visits to see each other over a years time, so there is no rush.

Right now I will be posting a lot about how I am feeling about the flight and trip getting closer and closer.  Whether it be nervous or excited I will share it here, plus any special news of my moving there.

thank you for reading,
                                 till next time....
                                                       Always,
                                                                    Resa Bear

a little history to date

greetings,  I am new at this, so please forgive me if I am slow on the uptake.  First to tell you a little about myself, I am a young adult at the nice age of 28.  I spent most of my life in Milwaukee, WI however for the last year I have lived in the tiny town of Athen, TN.  I never thought I would end up living outside of WI, even now I'm still surprised I am here!  However last summer I came to TN for a three week trip to visit my mom, and during that trip I realized that my husband at the time was very verbally abusive, so I decided to leave him cause I deserve better.  Not long after I decided to leave him and stay in TN I was talking with friends of mine from online and met this sweet guy who became a good friend who I could talk to.  After a few months of spending time talking online together, we realized that we were becoming more than friends!  We talked daily and still do to this day, and after six months of being more than friends online he came to visit me.  I was so excited the day he arrived!!  

The first few days of his visit here we stayed in TN and spent time together and with my family.  Three day after his arrival him and I took off on a nine day road trip to visit some close friends of ours in NY and WI.  So we spent two days driving from TN to NY and stayed in a nice hotel well spending every day there having the time of our lives with our friends who showed us the best time in NY,

I can't wait to visit there again!  After our three days there we took off again and spent 2 days driving to WI.  As it is with me being from WI we found some great friends who were willing to put up with us staying with them for 3 days.

Our first full day in WI just happened to be my birthday so we spent the day doing popular Milwaukee tourist stuff with my best friend of almost 15 years!

I really enjoyed it and hated to see the time end.  However he had to be back before his flight, so after 3 amazing days in WI we left and drove the two days back to TN.  The same day we arrived back in TN we stopped by some friends of mine here to pick up a cute sweet little kitten who has now become our baby! 

The time he was here was the best two weeks I wish it wouldn't have ended, but he needed to go home to Belgium.  I cried the day he left, also the next few days I just couldn't enjoy anything without him.  Now it is better however I am getting ready for my turn to go visit him this fall for 90 days!  I can not wait I am so excited yet I am also very nervous I am scared of flying but can't wait to be in the air on my way to my love!  I will be blogging about my trip to Belgium and all we do well I am there, plus his next trip here and if everything works out at some point it will be about my move to Belgium!  I really do hope it is not too boring and everyone who reads it is inspired by our love story.

till next time...

remember keep an open mind cause you never know what you'll find!

                                                                                                                                    Always, 

Resa Bear